|         No Brainstoppers! I made this term up so don't try to find it anywhere else. A "brainstopper" is something you say or do that causes the           mind of an
 audience member to stop and think. This can be a good thing, but most           of the time when I catch a coaching student delivering a brainstopper,           it is a bad thing and not part of their dynamic public speaking skills.
 Here is an example of a good brainstopper. You might say, "Take           a moment and think about the first toy you had as a child."
 A command like this would take the audience member's mind from where           it is now to a time long ago. For most of the audience this will be a
 pleasant experience. For some it may be unpleasant. Either way you
 still are directing the show. You might do this to make some kind of
 point about how simple things used to please us, or something like
 that. This leading the audience is part of your dynamic public speaking skills.
 Here is an example of a bad brainstopper. You might say, "That           man's elocution is impeccable." For all of us highly educated and brilliant
 folks the word "elocution" obviously means fine form in speaking           or
 reading.
 When using your dynamic public speaking skills, you know if this word was used in a less educated arena, the instant it came out of your mouth,
 the brains of the audience members would be racing to figure out what
 the word "elocution" means. Thus, their brains have stopped           because you
 used a word that was not easily understood. The audience member will
 not hear your next few sentences because they are still trying to
 figure out the word "elocution." Do this several times and           they will
 tune out altogether ... unless of course you are Deepak Chopra who gets
 high praise for being totally unintelligible. hahahahaha
 Another way to stop someone's brain is to distract them by your actions. You might display an odd prop before explaining what it is.
 This would make an audience member stop listening while their minds
 tried to figure out what the prop is. If you were talking during this
 time, they wouldn't hear a word you said. The stage part of your         dynamic public           speaking skills includes when and how to use props.
 Look at your word choice and actions carefully before you exhibit them           on stage. It is hard enough to keep attention in today's short
 attention span environments. Don't make it worse by using bad
 brainstoppers. Carefully selected and cleverly used brainstoppers can
 be a good part of your dynamic public speaking skills.
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